Stakes are high, and there is a greater potential for loss if you do decide to take the plunge with a BFF—you just might lose the Best and the Friend, forever.
This creates kind of a neutral charge for the relationship and typically kills passion and growth. Luisa was a client in her 30s who had dated a lot but not yet found a partner.We did the reading, which revealed that they had been married in a past life.The relationship had lasted a long time, but they never had children.They don’t have all the same friends, interests, or desires. To Be or Not to Be Ultimately, a combination of free will and karmic contracts—like karma mates or soulmates—guides us to make our relationship choices, for better or for worse. Want to have an intimate experience (and they’re always around)?They do have passion, regular opportunities for growth, and space to be interdependent within the relationship. If you are tempted to date your best friend, ask yourself why. Sometimes love does blossom between friends, and sometimes it works.It’s a difficult concept to explain, but once I mentioned it Luisa knew exactly what I meant. Some people are fine with this and find ways to be stimulated outside of the marriage—sexually, emotionally, or intellectually.