With a desire to pursue sexual purity, we both thought it would be helpful to write down some specific physical boundaries.
After several hours of talking about various scenarios and specific situations, we finalized our list.
I’m really proud of him for conveying such a tough message! Why are you hiding behind prayers, vague intentions, group hangouts, and TEXT MESSAGES? If you are clearly leading her on step up and ask her out, or stop leading her on.
I was talking with a group of Christian men the other day and was given astonishing insight into the current dating scene. I’ve found myself wondering how do I encourage my brothers to GET OUT THERE and date. Group hangouts are great, but find time for one on one where your intentions are clear.
You really don’t need to pray if she’s the one for you—you need to talk to her and ask her to go somewhere with you.
Tell her kindly you won’t be calling anymore because you aren’t interested in a romantic relationship.
It will sting a little for her, but it’s better than leading her on for months and her having 372 discussions with her friends.
In fact, it normally caused that person a lot of problems. The bad influences you allow in your life will form you into who you are more than any good influences you try to use to counter the bad. Date those who have dedicated their lives to living as Christ would have them live.
"You hang out with spiritual losers..become a SPIRITUAL LOSER." It's true..character is only as clean as the people you hang around with.
And ladies, if you are confused about a man’s intentions—just ask him to clarify.