There should be a balance, as we remember that God is perfectly loving (Ephesians ; 1 John -18) and perfectly sovereign over every situation, desire, and need (Psalm 1; Romans -39).
God uses our choices, other people, and sometimes even modern technology, to bring about marriages.
Every day Christians meet on the boards and discuss topics from Christian dating experiences, church life, to current events.
Is it possible we are being too picky, looking for the fairy-tale prince or princess, and by doing so, limiting the possibilities of what God may know is best for us and which we have not yet considered?
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We also have loads of advice covering everything from dating, relationships and faith by top Christian writers on our Christian dating blog.
It can be difficult to meet single Christian men and women, especially if most of our friends have already married.
We can put ourselves in a position to meet other Christians by looking for a church singles group.
Christian Connection runs regular events where you can meet other single Christians in a fun, relaxed environment.