You do read stories of women who reduce men to 24/7 sissymaids and permanent cuckolds.
Often I've suspected these were men living out their fantasies by creating an online faux-Domme persona that enforces them.
Table 1 gives some examples of good taglines gone bad (no, it’s not the name of a new TV reality show) when various dating sites didn’t display the entire tagline in search results.
Table 1: Good Taglines Gone Bad You really can’t tell how the computer can chop your phrase.
That explains how I became a plate of liver and onions.” • “I used to think I was indecisive, but now I’m not too sure.” Remember the game “Telephone” from when you were a kid?
Poor fellow, you've emailed countless Dommes and none of them write back. You've expressed your willingness to do "anything." What more could they ask? While some Dommes are only looking for lifestyle slaves others seek play partners.
And there's nothing to be gained by trying to meet someone you can't satisfy or that would be inappropriate for you.
Aside from the checklist you really should have a few paragraphs describing yourself and your interests outside of D/s.
The obvious first step is to think about the kind of match you want.
Focus on the less superficial stuff, not how tall or suave or sexy you want your prospect to be.
Sometimes only a limited number of letters gets posted on a search.