Yes if you find a meat head and date you might have issues but if you find a guy that is trying to serve his country is down to earth knows right from wrong then great.
The problem I have found when it comes to men in the military that are real dicks is that they joined the military for all the wrong reasons.
Arrogant folks like to talk and talk, so sometimes it's very necessary to simply end the conversation before it derails into something else entirely.
First of all, unless you're a Marine Drill Instructor, you don't BREAK a man; you break a horse.
Dating is hard because you don't always know who is a great guy and who isputting up a front.
He is an individual and deserves one until he acts otherwise.
Those who stand up to arrogance are seen as having integrity, as they're not going to just let someone disrespect them.
After that is over, she normally cools down and becomes gentle.That has made a big difference not only in the quality of our relationship but also in the quality of my life.I always hear horror stories about dating military guys and have met a couple awful military guys myself (violent, immature, threatened me). In the realm of military men, try to avoid the ones that get caught up in unit drama.Shock them a bit by letting them know how close it hits to home.This tells them that they're also insulting you now. "I'd appreciate it if we stopped talking about this now."Just as the arrogant person has rudely steam-rolled the entire conversation, you can rudely put an end to it.I have reflected on how I felt and how much value I place in our relationship and the value she shows as well.