Truth is, women care far less about physical appearances than men do. As a man, your appearance is judged in four different categories: do a lot of other things: Grooming is simple.
Unlike most women, you don’t have to spend an hour every day putting on or taking off make-up in order to look good Go for a basic but clean hairstyle.
Instead, look at BMI and body fat percentage: If you’re 5’10”, you’ll look best at about 11% body fat and weighing 175 to 190 pounds. (Swimmers or soccer players, not Olympic weightlifters.) Unless you’re severely obese or ultra skinny, you can get very close to your ideal metrics after 6 months of healthy eating and regular weightlifting.
(You might not be as ripped as you’d like though, that can take longer.) And don’t forget that consistency always trumps everything else: it’s better to hit the gym fewer times but more consistently…
Fast successes motivate long-term commitment to a goal. It won’t teach you the finer details or advanced pick-up skills.
It won’t teach you the evolutionary reasons for why women find certain things attractive.
This is because I made a real connection first: Girls didn’t feel like I was just some random stranger.
If you haven’t learned arithmetic, you won’t be able to perform even the “basics” of advanced mathematics.
Unless you have Quasimodo-like deformities, not being blessed with top 10% (or top 1%) genetics is not an excuse for failure.
That agenda (“get the number” or “ask her out”) is all that’s on their mind, so they are unable to stay in the moment.
This makes it very hard to make a genuine connection. Girls that act interested but never return texts, or don’t show up for dates.
Unless you’re 6’8” or above, you probably want to look a little taller and leaner.