I am not naïve enough to believe I would be loved at the same level as her children.
My last sentence is where many single men drop the ball.
If these girls are "baggage", I want to travel forever! I went out with a girlfriend in Montclair, NJ, to a fun place called Just Jakes. It was a little deceiving, sure, but I thought telling the guys I was a single mom would influence their answers—and I wanted raw thoughts.It was lovely being out sans Jack, having a cold beer at the bar, surrounded by other adults enjoying drinks, conversation, and music. I videotaped their answers, transcribed what they said, and here’s what I got: “It’s not the ideal situation for me.Which is fine cause we did move fairly quickly in the relationship but.Then he says your kids Are wonderful but 4 seems to much for me now and that's the reason for him distancing himself from me.The guys who can't handle playing third fiddle in this position are the ones who use terms like "baggage".